Whoopi Goldberg

I have always liked Whoopi! She is funny, a great actress, and I so love her on the "View" It occurred to me today that she also says "What the Hell." So did I get it from her? Or, did she somehow get it from me? Hmm. I think perhaps I got it from her but "What the Hell!" She doesn't own it right? God I need a job!!!!! Do you think I am in a rut? Now, I am blogging about Whoopi!! What the Hell is that? Unfortunately, I got married when high school was over. Not much college. I am amateur at everything, and professional at nothing!! So Whoopi what does a girl do now?? I keep thinking that one day I will wake up and POOF!!!!! I will know what it is I am on this earth for! What the hell! Maybe the "View" could do a whole show about that! Those girls seem to have the answers to most everything else. Today, I need all my angels to get around me and give me a great big push, in the right direction! Whoopi had Patrick in the movie Ghost! What the Hell! Maybe, my angel just has not landed yet! Until then.......................................

"These are a few of my favorite Things"

When my son Patrick was a baby I used to sing to him! One of those many songs was "These are a few of my favorite things." So here a few of mine. Kids! I love them all. Little ones big ones and those who worry me! "What the Hell" Puppies! God I love puppies! When we moved to the woods my Sara had nine of them! It was awesome! Nine puppies times puppy shit is not awesome!! Cats of course, What the Hell! And horses, they are so beautiful! And did I mention LOBSTER!!!!!!!! Dripping in butter!!! What the hell is that???? GOOD! I love my son, my parents. They are so awesome. My cousin Eddie who is the lobster king!!! So many favorites. So many blessings! I also have a list of things that are not my favorites. We won't go there today! But just so you know Valentines day is not on the favorite list anymore! "What the Hell"

RON

Mary, my sister is six years older than I. (you don't look it Mar) When I was about 13 or so Mary brought home a guy from college. His name was Ron. He was a big guy with a big voice, from New Jersey. I instantly fell in love with him! And so did Mary. They married on February 10, 1973. He was the heart of our family. But to me he was the best person, friend, brother in law, Dad, Son in law, and most of all husband anyone could ever know! I used to say "What The Hell" how did she find this guy? Why can't I find one like him? The answer is simple. God only made one Ron!! On January 30, 2005, Ron was sitting in a chair in the bedroom. He and my sister were talking, and getting ready to go to breakfast. Ron just fell over and died! "WHAT THE HELL" is that! He was 57 years old. Today I heard something on Oprah about the phrase "time heals all things." She said, that it is not the time that heals the pain, but what you do with the time! I thought that was so cool! I never thought my sister would survive without her Ron! Guess again! She has a bucket list, and stays right on top of it! She told me the other day that one of the things that she promised herself was that she would never cry all the time. Mary only allows herself to cry in one place. "What The Hell" What a great idea! She is awesome. However, she is my sister, if you know what I mean! I miss Ron everyday. He always made things better. No one does anything like he did. Save me a seat brother in law! "What The Hell" Love "Jenn"

"Valentines Day"

I have been married three times. While I believe in marriage, I can not, for the life of me figure it out! Some of us are very lucky with love, and some of us, well, not so lucky. We just keep on trying until it makes us, or breaks us! For me it is a job. You want to do well, and maybe get a promotion someday. So I ask you, "What the Hell" is this? NO VALENTINE ON VALENTINES DAY!!!!!! NONE, NOTHING! And, I will add that this is not the first time. "What The Hell" is that? Do we just get old and it doesn't matter to some of us? Bullshit on that! So, I am hurt AGAIN! "What The Hell" should I do? Get a divorce, leave, be mad for a week, no sex, no talking. I could go on and on! Would it matter? For the record, it is very important to take note of these special days, you know, like your 50th birthday!!!!!!! LOVE, LOVE, LOVE! Where is the manual? My husband does very well when he has a manual! Me, no manual required! My Mother must have done something right! It is in tears that I leave you today. "WHAT THE HELL"